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Mesa Fama's avatar

Thank you, K! I'm so grateful for you and the support you've shown me!! Love you bigger than the sky! 😍😍😍

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Higher than the sky, deeper than the sea 🩵💙

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Mesa Fama's avatar

<3 <3 <3

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Amy Gabrielle's avatar

I love everything about this post K! And not just because you mention me - that's the cherry on top. So many amazing resources, both on and off Substack. You put so much care and work into creating a manifesto of self care, not for yourself, but to help others take care of themselves. If I haven't said these exact words before, you are the Empress of Empathy and Emotional Intelligence, and if I had the power to knight you, I would! 🥰❤️🥰❤️

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Amy I don’t have words. You’ve stunned me! I’m so very appreciative of you and your writing in my life 🐞❤️🐞

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Loren Madden's avatar

Adding to your water tidbit - having a warm glass of water first thing in the morning is amazing for waking up your body and kickstarting your metabolism :)

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Thank you so much for adding this! Any other practices you hold dear- we are all ears.

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Alex Cristea's avatar

Thank you for highlighting my article, K. It helps with my struggle to understand why I'm still doing this. So, thank you 😊.

Regarding the morning water, it's been part of my morning routine for 5 years now. Our bodies deserve to get properly hydrated after a long night's sleep. And warm water with some lemon juice and a spoonful of turmeric does the trick for me.

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Kelsey Blackwell's avatar

Well, aren't I just tickled pink! This is a great list. Thanks for the shoutout!

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Colleen Krystyniak's avatar

Forgot to share what gets me through the day- While I am new to this forum- (just a couple of months now) I am eating up the talent, generosity, & opportunities to both engage in and learn craft. My self-care also includes “pages” ala “Julia Cameron style,”some days Poetry (& prompts) read to me via video as a part of “the Wild Writing family” (by Laurie Wagner), a short yoga practice, & walking in the woods past tall pines to my favorite Oak. If I’m extra lucky my self care will include laughing with my kiddos, Yummy dinner, snuggles with my Golden, & I almost forgot- using my Merlin bird app. 🙌😂 Just love to see how many species I can pick up in 2 mins or less.

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

I loved reading this! I need to look into this Merlin app- my son has a bird identification map but an app is next level!! Thank you for sharing and being here Colleen 🐞

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Colleen Krystyniak's avatar

Oh you’re so welcome!!! A client turned me on to the app & I’m obsessed now!!🥰

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Colleen Krystyniak's avatar

This was lovely & chock full of resources & recommendations!!! Thank You!!!

I am thrilled to find I’m already on to quite a few of your recs-

Just love that you are using The Creative Act (a gem I just recently dove into in a Poetry group) as a sort of ‘quasi-tarot daily guide’ (my name for randomly opening to a page & taking in its wisdom- also a fave practice of mine! (I use Mark Nepo’s book “The Awakening” often in this same way.)

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Kendall Lamb's avatar

Thank you, dear K, for the shout out! You truly are the most beautiful soul, and I love you so! Also, I now have a scalp massager and some shower bombs in my shopping cart, because YES! 🙌

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

😂🤍🐞

Homemade spa days… might be the new Disneyland?

I love you sm, thank you for everything.

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Chris Anselmo's avatar

The Creative Act is so good! 🙌

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Agreed! ☺️

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Marc Typo's avatar

What a great publication name. Thank you for mentioning me. Lord knows I can use more self care, but I am committed to finding more. Secretly excited for my wife to stop pumping so I can escape and go to the gym like I used to instead of playing keep the baby away from the pump lol.

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Welcome to dear people pleasers, dear Marc! I bet gym time will come around again sooner than you think … you might miss the games like keeping Myles away from the pump - sounds like a calorie crusher! 😂

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Anthony Barhoum's avatar

Thank you so much for this. Once again, you nail a topic that is so important AND you offer a path to deal with it. Keep up the incredible work and inspiration. You are one of a kind.

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kaylen alexandra's avatar

Thank you soooo much!! Thank you for reading & for tracking steps with me! Got to 5k yesterday … 1/2 way to goal 🐞

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